Mom told me that handsome boys would be hard to be trusted and in that case pretty girls would be the same. And appearance is always becoming the insecurity issue here and will somehow create chaos and drama and whatever. Well by the end, no one is ugly. But ugly hearts will cause the ugly you. So if he/she cannot accept your flaws then she/he is not the one. Beauty doesn't determine sincerity in love. After all, em love is a funny thing. So yeah. You define.